I Keep Having Fantasies- Is that Normal?

Having sexual fantasies is just another word for sexual imagination and a common part of human sexuality.

We all have desires and fantasies.

Have you ever craved a food, like ice cream on a hot day? Well, sexual fantasies are similar.

People have all types of fantasies. Some people desire to be spanked, or maybe they desire to have sex in a car. There are numerous fantasies, more than I can count.

Not everyone has the same fantasies, and not everyone has the exact fantasy, even if it is similar.

For example, one person may want to have sex in a car, another person might want to have sex in a concert parking lot wearing only a shirt right before the sun goes down while their favorite song is playing.

One is not better than the other.

You might dream about them when you are asleep. Maybe they pop up when you are at the library, getting your haircut, or making a sandwich. They can come into your mind anytime, anywhere.

If they are age-appropriate and consensual, you might find a person to act them out with you. However, just because you have a fantasy does not mean your partner has to act it out with you or vice versa. Their having a fantasy does not require you to fulfill it. Fantasies are a part of sexuality, and consent is vital when it comes to sexuality.

So, is having one or more fantasies normal (I hate the word normal)? Yes, it is part of being human.