Oral Sex- Is it Right for Me?

There are many views on the topic of oral sex.

Some include religious, hygienic, personal views, and more.

When it comes to you specifically, your thoughts are the only ones that matter. What your parents, community, partner, or friends say don’t. Only you.

You can change your mind at anytime or you may change your mind depending on the person.

Maybe you will never have oral sex. That’s ok. Maybe you only have oral sex; that’s ok too.

Some people that you are intimate with may not want to have oral sex; that’s ok.

Consent is just as important as penetration for both you and the people you are with.

I’m going to tell you a personal story. There were two different occasions when my mother said oral sex was gross, and you could tell she was trying to get me to think the same as her. I acknowledged what she said; however, I didn’t agree, and to be honest, I didn’t continue the conversation with her and changed the topic, as nothing positive would have come out of that conversation if I shared my personal views.

My choice to engage in oral sex is only mine to make. There have been people I have engaged with in that and others I chose not to, both as a giver and receiver. Even with the same partner, there are days I’m into it and days I’m not. That’s ok and again only my choice to make.

So, to answer the question, is oral sex right for you? Only you can decide.

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