How To Take Yourself Out On A Date
Have you ever dated yourself? I’m here to give you some tips on how to do that!
There are dating apps out there that many go on waiting for a message from someone who makes you feel special, but you don’t need a dating app or someone else to go on a date with. You could go on a date this second with yourself. What does this look like?
You can spend money on your date, or you can do it completely free. Remember, you are taking yourself out; you can do whatever you want to do.
Do you want to go out to a restaurant, have a picnic, take a walk, go on a day trip, or do an activity? The choices are endless. It’s whatever you want to do.
Let me give you an example:
Get ready like you would for a date. What makes you feel confident? What makes you feel good? Dress and groom what would answer those questions. You could go to a place to eat, order food, and while sitting, eating your food, ask yourself questions like, “How do you feel about this…?” “Do you like this…?” “What would happen if…?” “What makes you…?”
By asking those questions, you get to learn about yourself, you create a connection to who you are, and you build a relationship with yourself. You say positive things to yourself. Maybe you complement your outfit or something you did. You radiate positivity and treat yourself like you would a date; get those negative thoughts out. If you went on a date with someone and liked them, you would most likely be positive towards them.
Hopefully, your date with yourself is going well. Maybe you take yourself out to walk in a park or get your nails done. Perhaps you go to the library or a book shop. Do an activity you like or love. Once you are done with your date, if you want it to turn into something sexual, you can turn it into a masturbation play session. If you want to set the mood, you can light some candles, put on your favorite sex playlist, or whatever turns you on. You can put on lingerie or just get straight into it.
Hopefully, you want to go out on a date with yourself again. Why not ask yourself out again? Who better than to have the best relationship with yourself?!
When I go out on a date with myself, I am having this dialogue in my head, not out loud, but if you are at home, why not ask yourself out loud? Do what makes you feel comfortable. Have fun with it. Continue to treat yourself nicely and get to know who you are. If you don’t already love yourself, this might be the way you positively see yourself and pave the way to eventually loving yourself.
